45 things I learned about writing

I recently joined a Facebook group with a lot of first-time writers. They ask questions like, “I want to be a writer, but I don’t know where to start.” Those questions got me thinking back when I first decided I wanted to be a writer 45 years ago. Then, I think about what I’ve learned about writing since, including nearly 40 years in professional writing with four novels (and a fifth in beta) and a best-selling non-fiction book under my belt. Those experiences taught me things I wished I knew when I started. Fortunately, they can help new writers today.

Here are 45 things I’ve learned about writing over the past 45 years.

1. This is from one of my first creative writing classes in high school: Notice everyday things. Find the exceptional in the ordinary.
2. There’s no such thing as an aspiring writer. If you write, you’re a writer. It’s important for you to think of yourself that way. When you call yourself a writer, you’re motivated to put in the work and learn your craft.
3. Don’t plan on supporting yourself solely from your book writing. You need a regular paying job that enables you to pay the bills and provides health insurance. Ideally, you should find a career you enjoy even if the book writing never takes off. If you don’t have to worry about paying the electric bill or making sure your children have clothes…